An Intro to Erotic Enemas
Something is fundamentally different about erotic enemas from various other “kinky” erotic activities that I’ve discussed in past blogs, such as bondage or spanking… Whereas EVERYONE has some concept about things like bondage and spanking, an awful lot of people are completely CLUELESS about Erotic Enemas.
Well, not toooo long ago, I belonged to that clueless crowd myself :blush:
I had a vague concept about enemas as “something to do on a utilitarian basis for constipation”, or at most as a preliminary cleanup for Anal Sex…
My perception of many things changed quite radically when I started working as a model for a BDSM film studio, as detailed in a past blog entry. One such big change turned out to be, very unexpectedly, my understanding of what Erotic Enemas are – or even the fact that such a thing exists!
To my surprise, I kind of liked enemas right away… And then they progressively grew on me even more.
Perhaps even more surprising to me has been the sheer numbers of other girls who start with immense skepticism about enemas – and then, bang, BIG ORGASM, mid-enema!! It happens semi-predictably in a LARGE, LARGE NUMBER OF CASES, in the films we shoot, in pre-film enemas, in “enema tests”, and in personal play…
So, WHAT are Erotic Enemas, then?
They can be simple or crazyass complex (no pun intended, hehe.) A simple enema bag while lying on the bed, or some monster inflatable nozzle while tied up in some impossible position.
The fantasy (or role-play) behind Erotic Enemas can be minimal, or it typically can be medical, or punishment, or submission/surrender, or simply pleasure. Yes, you heard right: PLEASURE!
Contrary to popular imagination, Enemas can be a tool of Pleasure, when done right. In fact, more than that, there are a very effective Pleasure Tool, even in people who don’t have any interest in them. And, yes, in women, too. You don’t need a prostrate to derive pleasure from enemas! Remember all those girls having orgasms I mentioned a few paragraphs ago? ;) I’m talking about scores and scores of them!
I might summarize Erotic Enemas as “a powerful new erogenous zone”.
Even in people who have no fetishistic interest in enemas.
Even in people who aren’t into anal sexuality.
Heck, even in people who are scared shitless of enemas! Pardon the pun :)
Speaking of “shit”, that’s one thing that Erotic Enemas are NOT about. Counter-intuitive, I know. But, unless you happen to be a scat fetishist, then fecal matter has no direct connection to erotic enemas.
What’s an Erotic Enema “done right”?
Erotic Enemas “done right” involve relaxation, lube, masturbation, pacing, an enema device (a simple bag works great), and above all a comforting giver (possibly oneself). For details, techniques and safety matters, let me refer you to a great Enema 101 How-To Guide, expertly written by the BDSM studio I work for.
When the enema is done right, typically there’s no pain nor discomfort – and the feeling is very stimulating! Add good masturbation, and a great orgasm is almost guaranteed :) Did I say an orgasm? If you’re a girl, change that to many!
The Director of the BDSM video & photo company where I now work as a webmistress, tells me that one of his favorite elements in taking the “enema cherry” (as he likes to put it!) is the “doe-eyed expression” of that girl afterwards – as if to say, “How is it possible that I just had a Big Orgasm? I had said earlier that I don’t even like anal play, and I had also said that I thought enemas were just a ‘weird concept’!”
Well, guess what – one of those girls was me :)
I thought it was something about me… Until I saw girl after girl having virtually identical reactions. Of course, not everyone turns out be an enema lover – but my point is that surprisingly large numbers of people do.
It turns out that Enema scenes are very popular with our audience. In fact, part of our “Erotic Information Management” mission has led us to create a whole family of special filters to extract all enemas scenes from all our videos, as well as even more specialized filters for Pleasure Enemas, Enemas With Bondage, Enemas Without Bondage, etc, etc.
Those scenes are very intimate and powerful; so, their popularity isn’t surprising. What is surprising is how many people – including myself in the past – are so much in the dark about a very powerful erotic tool that essentially amounts to a whole new Erogenous zone. Most of our models are first-timers; so, we have to do a lot of education.
Well, discovering a whole new Erogenous zone is a very worthwhile discovery, in my book!! :)